May 22, 2025

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  1. This isn’t a bad suggestion, my concern is that even after you seize somebody’s weapons, if they are truly mentally ill, they are still a danger to themselves and others.

    If you remember the case of Virginia Senator Creigh Deeds and his son you will understand where I’m going. Mr Deeds’ son was having a violent psychotic episode. His father sought to have him involuntarily committed. A court order was granted, unfortunately there were no beds available at any state facility to accept the young man. The next morning his son savagely attacked Senator Deeds with a knife and then took his own life with a firearm.

    This is not a unique occurrence. It happens to families every day, all across the country. In fact, many of the police involved shootings we hear about happen when families, at their wit’s end with how to deal with a violently mentally ill family member, call the police as a last resort. The police then end up in a deadly force encounter with the individual.

    The mass shootings grab all the headlines, but we lose far more people by one’s and two’s every day to the ongoing mental health crisis. Creating a quicker way to get firearms out of these people’s hands is fine, but what we really need is a system to take these people into protective custody, get them treatment, and then monitor them. Families feel like they have no where to go in these situations. I don’t understand the resistance to talking about it. If a state Senator couldn’t get help with his son, think about a low income family living in public housing. They have virtually no options except to call the police, which often ends in disaster. It’s not fair to the police either.

    I know there were horrific abuses back in the days of state run mental institutions. I’m not sure scrapping the whole system was the correct answer. This does need to be part of the conversation about how to help people before they end up committing violent acts. We are failing these families right now.

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